It was dd's first day at pre-school today. She's started nail-biting and I specifically asked key worker to gently remind her to take fingers out of mouth periodically.
I was in the corridor maybe 7 mins early and peeked through the door. Dd had her back to me and was chewing on nails like no tomorrow. She chewed non-stop until the story ended.
I asked key worker if dd had been at her nails a lot. She replied that, no, she had not done it at all (highly unlikely). I replied that dd had been chewing throughout the last few minutes. Key worker said it was the first time that morning and only because she had seen me.
DD had not seen me. She did not turn around and does not have eyes in back of her head. Had she seen me, in any case, she'd have run over.
I am furious that key worker a) either lied, or didn't bother to notice dd biting during the session. (DD freely admits she did and her fingers are in shreds)
b) That she made that nasty, untrue and rather vindictive comment, alluding to the fact that dd must only nail-bite in my presence. Which implies that I am directly responsible for her nail-biting and that she does not need to do it if I am not around.
I am upset to the point of considering removing dd. If they are going to lie and attempt to patronise and belittle parents over the little things, what will they be like over the big things?
Am I being petty? Should I speak up? What do you think?
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Pish · 10/09/2009 20:11
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