DS is 3.5 and has been in nursery (5 mornings a week) since Sept. It took until Nov/Dec to get him settled, but I went very slowly and gently it seemed to work. Last term he was fine - never that into it, but still went no problem. This term he went for 3 days, but then was off ill for over a week (not unusual for him(. When he went back last monday he cried loads. He got progressively worse each day last week and cried at night before bed, and even during the night. When I picked him up he was fine and pottering along happily.
He has a whole year left - we're in scotland so he doesn't go to school until next summer.
He had a good weekend (no crying, bother, tantrums, hassle etc) but this morning he cried from 7:50am until the time I left him at 9:20am (and most likely more after that). He says he doesn't know what's wrong.
There have been some changes - several new children in the class and 2 new teachers. But I don't understand how he was fine those 3 days. I don't think he's 'playing' me. I've told him he has to go end of story and i@ve given him loads of hugs and reassurance etc.
Does anyone have any thoughts? I wonder if all the crying, and building it up is making him worse? And he'd be better with a few days off? He's usually excessively 'brave' (I rolled my car with him in it last year and he never said a word, though was scared.) so all of this is quite out of character.
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suzi2 · 18/05/2009 10:03
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