I couldn't sleep last night without having nursery nightmares!
DH dropped of DS(4) at nursery yesterday afternoon - he said to Miss X that DS's mother will pick him up later. DH said goodbye to DS and went.
fast forward 2.5 hours.
Stood at the school gates waiting for DS to be let out and I was informed by some parents that one of the mums found him out on the road crying for Daddy, so she took him back in. He was outside not only the nursery gate, but the adjoining school gate too!
Mrs Z called me in and her words were something along the lines of "your DS had managed to get out somehow and we have had a good talk with him and he's said he won't do it again....... we can't remember him coming into nursery this afternoon, but he must have come in because he had his nametag in his hand"
So even though they didn't know he was there in the first place (apparently - even though my husband spoke directly to Miss X) they acknowledged the fact that he must have been there, because he was carrying his card.
I was so calm at the time that I just thanked the mum who brought him back, but afterwards I realised just how serious it was. I was kind of numb at the time if that makes sense?
Anyway..... we went to see the Headmistress this morning, unannounced, and she had no idea about it! They hadn't even informed the Head! She was very shocked and very apologetic. She is launching a full investigation immediately and letting us know the outcome.
Needless to say - he's not going back there - he has a place at another nursery and we're filling all the forms in tomorrow.
I'm so upset about what has happened. About the fact that it happened in the first place.... the fact that they didn't phone me to soften the blow first and that the other mums told me first..... the fact that they pretty much told my son he was naughty and didn't offer any apology or explaination. (yes he was naughty in getting out, but at the same time he is only 4 and there should be security in place to make sure he couldn't get out.
Anyway......
I just had to share this with you all.
Tomorrow when you take your child to nursery, make sure the lock the doors behind you and if they don't - then tell them to. My DS is fine thankfully, but it doesn't bear thinking about what could have happened.
Thanks for listening.
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I still can't believe that nursery managed to lose my DS yesterday
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RedOnHerHead · 14/05/2009 00:57
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