Ds1 had his first day (morning) at pre-school yesterday. Going again tomorrow. Seemed to really enjoy his first session. Didn't even cry when I left him although it was after 3 quarters of an hours as he kept saying don't go. However all yesterday afternoon he kept saying don't leave me next time and to stay and play with me and if I go home he's coming with me! Tonight when I told him he had pre-school tomorrow he said don't go home stay and look after me. When I told him that the (preschool workers) will look after him he got really upset and said no you look after me thats your job that is!! He seemed to attach himself to the male preschool worker and had a great time with him playing with hammers and a drill. He built a house with him and then knocked it down. His names Ian and he made a point of telling me what they'd done and how much fun ds had had. Ds told me all about it later and his face when describing it says it all!
I therefore pointed out to him that Ian will be there and he will look after him. However he got very upset and is insistent that I'm not to leave him and I'm to stay etc etc. I'm a sahm and he has never been left with anyone outside the family and never on a regular basis. Any advise? He's 3 btw. Turned 3 a fortnight ago.
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How do I deal with ds1 not wanting to be left at preschool?
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NOgirlsallowed · 24/09/2008 20:09
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