Hi,
New here and a Dad not mum, but seemed the best place to ask my question. Been trawling through various threads and read conflicting answers :/
For TLDR: I’m unsure if our soon to be 3 year olds preschool place can be removed if she misses term time. And more importantly if it could affect her chances of being accepted to the school at 5. Fines wouldn’t be nice, but aren’t my primary concern.
A little background to help put my question/concerns into context:
The school is oversubscribed for both preschool and regular school. It’s a catholic school and my wife had to complete a 6 month attendance sheet for our daughter to be eligible (I’m not catholic so found it quite amusing and not really in keeping with religion).
We started our family a little later then our peers, so we could dedicate more attention and time to our children. We’re now fortunate that my wife can comfortably work part time and I often work from home with flexibility. As such we don’t need to send her to preschool.
In fact I felt it was too early and questioned wether she’d receive the same level of attention she currently does at home. She’s hitting milestones a year or more in advance, can string sentences together, count, recite alphabet, colours, etc. (I have no illusions she’s a genius, but since most people think she’s atleast 4 i’m confident she’s on track). But my wife and parents felt it’s only 3 hours a day and would help her ease into school in 2 years.
All was good until we realised her start date was close to half term. I asked the school if she could start after half term and got the response “no”. I hadnt expected this as I’d presumed there wouldn’t be a strict regimen until mandatory school age.
The school (albeit just the admin staff) implied if I wasn’t happy she doesn’t have to take the place. I spoke to the council who said they don’t get involved at preschool stage. And then started digging and getting conflicting answers.
My wife is a clinician in a busy hospital, so whilst she only works a couple of days, time off during school hols is difficult. Her family live in Europe, so flying to Vienna for a few days is not really realistic.
As our daughter gets older I accept the balance shifts to her formal education. But I struggle to accept such a stringent regimen is better for her at this early stage.
Whilst I’m happy to argue with the school, I’m mindful I don’t want to start off on the wrong foot. Moreover I don’t want her to lose her place or more importantly possibly impact her chances of acceptance at the same school at 5.
Appreciate if anyone can help me with a definitive answer on where we stand?
Thanks :)
NB: please excuse the typos, writing on mobile so they slip through :)
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Jf711 · 08/01/2018 21:01
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