DD was 4 last month. Since the start of term she's been going to the nursery attached to the primary where her brother is in year 1. At the moment, she does 2 full days (9 - 3.30) and 1 half day (9 - 12) a week. This suits us perfectly. I'm not working at the moment, and I feel she's getting adequate socialization and ready-for-school skills. DD enjoys herself when she's there and doesn't fuss when I drop her off, but often says at the weekend and in the mornings that she doesn't want to go and wants to stay with me. She obviously finds it quite tiring, and usually naps during the day on her days off.
The problem is that the nursery gets funding to take 4 year olds full time, and I don't think she needs to or wants to go! A letter was sent home at half term to say that held full time place would start after the holiday, so I told her key worker that I thought she wasn't ready. Her key worker asked me this morning if she'd be starting after Christmas, as "all the other children will be full time by then" and she may be "behind when she starts reception". I know so many parents would kill for a full time funded nursery place, but I know it's not for us.
Am I being ridiculous to look a gift horse in the mouth? DH agrees with me, and all of DD's friends outside of this nursery are in part time settings and will be until starting school.
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Mrsfrumble · 21/11/2016 09:42
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