My son has been attending preschool for over a year. Recently I've been advised by the staff that they can't get him to do anything, that he's really emotional and says 'I can't' a lot, that I need to be tougher with him and that he'll need to be able to dress himself when he goes to school in September. They are right that with respect to him putting his shoes and jacket on and similar tasks, he says he can't do it and throws the items away and goes in the huff. But I think they're being neglectful when they leave him for 20 mins in this state while the other children are outside playing (they told me this is what happens on a regular basis). I know they can't look after only one child at a time. They need to be there for all the children but I also believe, if they gave more encouragement and help to him, he would do it. I believe these ladies are too old for the job and are too old fashioned in their approach. I don't mean to be agist but one has been there for forty years and it wouldn't be an issue for me but she's very abrupt with the kids and never gets down to their level, so to speak. She always seems lacklustre. Anyway, when I picked him up today I spotted him from the entrance door, sitting in a corner crying because he couldn't put his shoes on and his keyworker told me he's been 'contrary' all afternoon. He's just returned after an illness, which they're aware of, so I think he was tired, which I know is not an excuse, but I just wonder if they've given any leeway for this. I don't ever get feedback on his day and I have asked what he's been up to and they've said they don't know and I should ask him. Has anyone had a similar experience? I know it's not a serious one but I wonder if I should talk to the manager (who's also the school headteacher) but I worry this may affect his care.
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Lorelei2 · 10/03/2016 21:16
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