My son is 4 and has been in nursery for 1 year (council run, attached to a school).
The nursery are always pulling me aside to discuss concerns they have about him. He doesn't socialise much with the other children, barely talks to the adults, struggles to focus at circle time, stuggles to do his activity sheets/tasks, walks away from conflict instead of trying to resolve it, struggles to follow instructions and other things like that.
They have refered him to speech and language 3 times. The first 2 times we had a basic assessment and the therapist observed him once in nursery, she said she has no major concerns with his language and they couldn't do anything to help. We have just been discharged from his 3rd referall. She done a full language assesment and found that his language was slightly below what would be expected for his age but not enough to cause concern. She observed him in nursery twice and told me there wasn't anything concerning there, the only thing she did say was that he seems to follow visual clues better than verbal instruction. She said there wasn't anything she can do to help but did give the nursery some advice.
I dont have the same problems at home, so I am confused about the problems at nursery. He has 5 brothers and sisters and i babysit my 3 neices once a week so he is used to large groups. He will normally always join in the activities i do with the kids (sometimes takes a little coaxing though). He talks lots to family and friends (both adult and children). Has very little difficulty with following most instructions i give him. His pronunciation isn't great but most people we talk to can understand him well enough.
I'm starting to get pretty concerned that I'm just veiwing him with my "perfect little boy blinkers" and there is something more worrying going on. Over the last 2 months the discussions that i have had with the nursery staff are getting more concerning with them saying stuff like he is just babbling random sounds when they try to speak to him or he cant understand even a basic instruction they give him.
I keep asking the nursery what I can do to help but they just keep telling me they are waiting on speech and language getting back to them (for a year now despite being discarged 3 times)
Does anyone have any idea what i can do to help? I even considered taking him out of nursery at one point but he does really enjoy going to nursery.
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amy54321 · 08/12/2015 17:34
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