Is it standard practice for a pre-school to provide minutes from a meeting about the 2-3 year check? I was very taken aback to receive them by email about two weeks after the meeting I had with his key worker and the SENCO.
Asides from finding the above a bit and (ie that they minuted what I thought was a fairly casual meeting. I thought the actual written report was enough of a record!) I have felt that the school / his keyworker has been hinting that 'things' are not quite right with DS. He settled very well, no clinginess, when he started in Jan. When I asked his keyworker how he was doing initially she mentioned lack of eye contact and that he won't engage / listen when they speak to him sometimes. This worried me so I spoke to the manageress. As a result, she arranged for a daily diary to be completed about how he's doing. TBH though this doesn't really provide any real nitty-gritty, useful information apart from that he played with the train set a lot this day, liked the water another etc.
I asked again about the eye contact / listening at the review meeting and they said it is reasonable for his age and not something to worry about. Instead at his review they got quite heavy handed about him having 'sensory issues'. He always put things in his mouth when he was younger (just like any baby will) and seemed to do it more than his peers and for a longer period of time, but it's not really a problem at home. They say it is at the nursery and also that they think he is too keen on playing with water / sand, the latter of which he sometimes still likes to eat.
I'd be interested in hearing any thoughts on any of these issues. To be honest, I'm struggling to know whether to keep him at this school or whether to move him to a new one in September. There are lots of factors to be taken into account other than those I've mentioned above though.
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