Does anyone with a developmentally 'forward' baby have experience of how nursery has helped / hampered their development?
At the moment I'm looking at putting my 10 month old into a nursery full time, I would be doing long hours and only really seeing her at the weekend. Not ideal, but I'm a lone parent and don't have a lot of choice.
So far she's doing pretty well development wise for her age. For example, she can identify the colour red, turn pages in books, sit and carefully study the pages, sit through long books (paddington, grimm's fairytales for example), make all the noises as we go through a book like 'Peace at Last', kiss the characters on a page if they are upset and always asks for more stories. Her vocabulary is already pretty good - she can say about 10 words. I started to teach her phonics, numbers and colours to see how she would get on and she's really obviously enjoying it. She can identify some objects, body parts. She's also moving around fast, a good climber and very interested socially. She's a very happy, mischievous, 'easy' baby unless she feels she's not learning something quickly enough, or I don't give her something she wants quickly enough - then she has a very quick temper :)
When I've been to look at nurseries I've got worried. They just seem like holding pens for babies? Some have seemed better than others but none have really left me with the impression that she will be progressing as fast there. They might sing a few songs at certain times of day but otherwise as long as the children aren't hurt, they are almost left to their own devices, is the impression I got? At one in particular I explained about the books we read and how much she enjoys them and a girl in the room started questioning me in quite a hostile way, as if I was either making it up or a parent who thinks their child is somehow a genius, which I'm not. At that nursery the only books they even have in the room for that age group are very basic picture books.
I know that a childminder could be an alternative, but I've seen a local childminder drag a girl in her care across the library pulling her arm, saying 'you little...' which was just horrible and it put me off childminders tbh.
Has anyone got advice - is it about finding a really top notch nursery, or asking them to do specific activities with her, or am I worrying about nothing? Have you found that going to nursery full time at this age has changed your baby's pace of development and/or general mood, for better or worse?
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rhythm12 · 05/11/2014 22:56
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