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Preschool key workers with piercings and tattoos, I am not happy

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tweety2000 Mon 08-Jul-13 22:27:30

My 3 y old will be starting preschool in September. We had a tester day today, but I was a bit unhappy to see few key workers with facial piercings, tongue piercing, and tattooed across the whole length of one of her leg (she was wearing short shorts). Am I just too old and not able to follow the modern times and accept that's its fine, or I am right to be concerned about this? To me it speaks a lot about the standards of the stuff that is beign employed.
I am not against them having those things but I am not keen of them showcasing it to preschoolers.

Would I sound unreasonable if I pointed this to a manager of preschool, or it would be unreasonable of me?

Fekko Mon 11-Sep-17 17:41:48

Oh yes - it is a zombie thread! The child has probably got tats of her own now!

Tentomidnight Mon 11-Sep-17 17:41:47


(You Are Being Exceptionally Unreasonable)

Fekko Mon 11-Sep-17 17:40:01

The only thing that would worry me is a child pulling on a dangly piercing! That would go for hoop or dangly earrings too. Ouch.

Gracielaw Mon 11-Sep-17 17:36:53


I have worked in childcare for 10 years. Have a degree and various other qualifications. I am covered in tattoos.. yes even my hands. Shock horror.
I have worked in a wide range of settings and have only encountered someone like you once.

Tumbleweed101 Mon 11-Sep-17 17:28:40

It's good for small children to see people who dress differently, have tattoos and piercings, different hair styles etc. It teaches them that everyone is different and that they can be different too.

kel1493 Sat 29-Apr-17 22:47:45

Discrimination based on appearance. How they look does in no way affect how they work or how good at the job they are.
You're being very unreasonable

FineAsWeAre Sat 29-Apr-17 22:42:15

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Whosthemummynow Wed 19-Apr-17 19:40:04


Traalaa Wed 19-Apr-17 19:39:11

The best worker at my DS's nursery had a mohican and tattoos. I'd vote for her if she was standing in the election as she was so fab, kind, clever and wise.

smilingsarahb Wed 19-Apr-17 19:38:09

My year 2 child can remember nothing about pre school, so I doubt very much there would be a lasting impact of witnessing a tattoo

StrawberryJelly00 Wed 19-Apr-17 19:37:01

You may personally dislike the sight of them but I fail to see the impact of them on your child?

I do however see the impact of you being predjudice on your child.

SoloDance Wed 19-Apr-17 19:35:59

I would think the OPs DD is at primary school now. This thread is nearly 4 years old.

TheHobbitMum Wed 19-Apr-17 19:32:38

Err do you think people with tattoos and piercings will abuse and corrupt your little darling? YABVVVVU! I have tattoos & piercings and to dispell any myths you may have against "my type" .... DH & I have 4 (very happy,
well balanced and intelligent) children, we spend the summer away in Greek Islands (plus many weekends away in Europe, UK theatre breaks, festivals, concerts etc) drive a new car every year, DH controls a corporate budget of many millions and I am a SAHM. I think you need to get a serious grip

anxious2017 Wed 19-Apr-17 19:27:06

I'm a Primary School teacher. I have a sleeve tattoo down to my wrist and nose and multiple ear piercings. I won a teacher of the year award in 2013. Clearly they have a massive effect on how good I am at my job.

NotCitrus Wed 19-Apr-17 19:23:48

Lots of my friends have tattoos and many have piercings. I repeat they can have such things when they grow up, but there has been a minor issue of each child colouring themselves in with marker pens, so I suggest you hide pens especially the permanent markers, if your kids are of an age where they might try it.

My own fault, especially as when I was about to give birth and felt likt death but had to look after 3.5yo ds, I encouraged him to keep going so I could rest...

Beyond that, no problem.

zaynexxvi Wed 19-Apr-17 18:56:23

Physical appearence doesn't matter to the children so I think the important point is the teacher's skills

Quangle Tue 16-Jul-13 14:56:27

I don't like it either. Facial piercings especially. Everyone is being very cool about this but I don't like it. As for very short shorts, no. School is not a free-for-all or a club, it's a workplace and it wouldn't be acceptable in my workplace.

Fairylea Mon 15-Jul-13 13:51:06

Goodness me..surely nursery and school should be preparing dc for the real world where they will meet all kinds of people? Surely a good, caring nursery worker with tattoos and piercings is part of that education?! Otherwise the world is just going to continue to be as narrow minded and prejudiced as the op itself.

My dh is literally covered in tattoos and piercings. Head down no free skin! He works in management. Thankfully he's never had any negativity even when he's talked about them at interviews - and his job isn't anything "alternative" either.

rhetorician Mon 15-Jul-13 13:47:04

YABU and very judgy. One of dds key workers has a tongue piercing which led to some rather interesting discussions. Some of them have tattoos, she has never asked about those. As far as I know body piercings have no relationship to a persons capacity to be caring, nurturing, responsible etc.

IWipeArses Mon 15-Jul-13 13:45:20

Grow up.

GobbySadcase Mon 15-Jul-13 13:41:25

Get over yourself.
YABVU and ignorant.

RoxyFox211 Mon 15-Jul-13 13:40:15

Yabvu! What's that got to do with how good they are with children? I thought maybe you meant they had/were covered in face and neck tattoos which I guess maybe in certain circumstances I can sort of understand someone being a bit put off by, but the main thing is how competent they are are at looking after your dcs. Tongue piercing is hardly visible anyway! Pretty sure staff at dd's nursery have they odd lip/nose stud.

TondelayoSchwarzkopf Mon 15-Jul-13 13:37:26

Am I just too old and not able to follow the modern times?

How old ARE you? I would think if you have a 3 year old you really can't be of a generation that would be shocked by tattoos.

YABU, DS's nanny had facial piercings and a tattoo and was a granny (so I'm guessing older than you) and was one of the kindest and most qualified childcare workers I've come across and had no problem getting work - even in quite a swish area.

Winston Churchill's mum had a tattoo and she seemed to have raised him right.

BeCool Mon 15-Jul-13 13:23:30

I think perhaps the manager of the preschool has already noticed! hmm
Of course YABVU!

Xihha Mon 15-Jul-13 13:13:15

Unless the tattoos are of naked ladies or swear words I really don't see what the problem is, DDs favourite lady at nursery has tattoos on both arms and one on her shoulder, a nose piercing and a tongue piercing and bright coloured hair that seems to change colour every term. She's absolutely brilliant at her job and loved by all the children.

Kryptonite Careful using your tattoos as a teaching tool, my friend has stars twisting round her arm and last time she looked after DD they had been playing count the stars but DD got bored of that game and it took my friend ages to wash the felt-tip off where DD had decided to colour them in instead. grin

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