When my DD started private school I thought "BRILLIANT!".
Five weeks later she got into an altercation with another child. I went berserk! It was traumatic for us both but soon sorted out. I put the whole episode behind us and concentrated on DD's performance at school.
I've made about 3 so called "friends" and they are lovely Mums. The other parents are just a friggin' nightmare. They are not friendly at all. I do try my best but I feel as though they can't be bothered.
It really bugs me as it was ME who selected the school after 2 separate visits.
On the second visit there were Mums who seemed extremely friendly, welcoming and warm. In fact, all of the Mums who were asked, by the school, to attend parent visit days were really lovely... on the day.
Now that my DD attends the school they barely speak to me let alone look in my direction. They leave me with the impression that they wouldn't spit on me if I were on fire let alone say "Hello".
My DD loves the school and that is why we spend our hard earned £££ to send her there. It is for DD not for me I know.
However, I still get a wrench in the pit of my stomach when I drop her off. As I just do not feel welcome at all!!! It got to the point where I even show up at 3:30 or 3:32 so as to avoid the whole wrench in my stomach thing.
We are not wealthy nor do we live in a well off area - just a small normal village.
The little girl, who my daughter got into an altercation with, invited my DD to her birthday party. But the Grand parents, who drop off & pick up the little girl won't even say "Hello" to me. Ironically, the little girl & my DD are now best friends.
Tomorrow is the school's Christmas fair, I volunteered my family to help out for my DD's sake. However, I am NOT looking forward to it.
I wish my Mum were alive because I would ask her for her opinion. I don't want to go to my friends as they will think I'm being foolish & tell me to give it time. Heaven knows I don't want to say anything to DH as he knows how I feel and just says "The school is for DD not for you!"
But it's me who has to drop off, goes to work, and then picks up and it gets me down all the time!
What would you do?
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MummyOfLittleBigGirl · 25/11/2011 11:06
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