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When was baby allowed home?

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jessicajaine01 · 20/07/2017 14:15

I know it's way too early yet but had my gorgeous premmy On the 17th july at 31+2, just curious when other people's babies were allowed home? Docs have said aim for due date (sep 16th) but if all is well then could be before. I understand everyones different just curious.... Grin

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SolomanDaisy · 20/07/2017 14:22

Mine was born at 34 weeks and went home at 39 weeks. But I think that was unusual and lots of people got to go home much earlier.

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DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 20/07/2017 14:23

32 weeks and he was allowed home 3 weeks later when he hit 4lbs.

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BrightBlueStar · 20/07/2017 14:26

Congratulations. It depends on lots things. Mine came home a few weeks after their due date but they were poorly. Most I know (and I know a few!) got to go home before or around their due date. Obvs a nice healthy baby born at 34 weeks is likely to go home sooner than a poorly baby born before 30 weeks. My advice: Try not to look too far ahead. Just take each day as it comes. Good luck.

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minipie · 20/07/2017 14:30

Born at 34 weeks, home at 37+3 (but would have been a lot earlier if I'd bottle fed, it was getting BF going that kept us in)

I have to say it was very stressful once we went home as she was very sleepy and hard to feed and I worried a lot about her losing weight or getting jaundiced. So, although you will of course be desperate to get your baby home, I wouldn't be in too much of a hurry as it's jolly scary once the safety net goes!

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Justhadmyhaircut · 20/07/2017 14:31

Born at 35 weeks and home at 36 weeks. .

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user1493413286 · 21/07/2017 14:28

Born at 32+5, came home at 35+2. We were told to expect her to come home on due date so that we wouldn't be disappointed hoping her to come earlier but we learnt it all depends on how baby is doing. Breathing, temperature control, weight gain and feeding needed to be all going well before she could come home plus general health problems need to be ok.

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LotisBlue · 21/07/2017 14:42

Born at 35 weeks and came home after a week. It would have been sooner if I hadn't been so insistent on breastfeeding. It was so tempting to switch to formula to get us out of there but I'm glad we didn't.

Congratulations on your baby

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elliejjtiny · 21/07/2017 16:20

Baby born at 35+3 and came home at 39+3
Baby born at 36+6 and came home at 37+6

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MiniMaxi · 21/07/2017 20:09

Congratulations! I hope you're not feeling too stressed.

DS was born at 33+6 and came home two weeks later at 36 weeks - basically when he had a well developed enough suck reflex to be drinking enough milk

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BarchesterFlowers · 21/07/2017 20:13

29 wks home at 42 wks, we had a relatively smooth ride tbh but DD stopped breathing when she fed which kept her there longer.

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user1471530109 · 21/07/2017 20:16

Born at 29 weeks, home at 37 weeks.

I found all her preemie clothes last week as moving. OMG! Was she ever that small?! I cried my eyes out holding them and she is 4 now!

Coming home depends on so many many things. They say to aim for due date. I hope you have an uneventful stay in the neonatal unit. Don't focus on length but day by day. The nurses are lovely. They are wonderful people and I owe them an awful lot Flowers

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worrywart98 · 21/07/2017 20:21

34 weeker, she was in for 9 days. Best of luck - it's a horrible wait and feels like forever. We were continually told "aim for your due date" until the day before we were sent home!

I hope you get home all together really soon

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10storeylovesong · 22/07/2017 20:15

27 weeker, out at 36 weeks. I think that's quite unusual for such a little preemie though as was told to aim for due date

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Ginmummy1 · 25/07/2017 10:32

My DD was born at 29+3, discharged at 35+4.

They need to be a certain weight, breathing well on air with no apnea/brady episodes, feeding for themselves, maintaining body temperature etc.

Each baby is different. Congratulations and best of luck!

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KMoKMo · 26/07/2017 09:30

28 weeker out at 36+2.

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jessicajaine01 · 26/07/2017 10:42

Thank you everyone for responses xxx

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2014newme · 26/07/2017 10:43

33 weeks were in for a month

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LotisBlue · 27/07/2017 08:18

How is your little one getting on, OP?

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jessicajaine01 · 27/07/2017 10:02

@LotisBlue Very wel thank you. She is off all drips just being fed through her NG tube trying to establish the suck swallow breath co ordination!! Also out of her incubator and in a hot cot woohoo xx

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LotisBlue · 27/07/2017 10:35

great news Smile

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DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 27/07/2017 10:59

Fab Flowers

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Heartofglass12345 · 27/07/2017 13:28

My first was born at 30+4 and came home at 36 weeks, my second was born at 33 weeks and came home at 35+3. Both of them had no infections or anything so it was a case of waiting for them to gain weight and learn to breathe, suck and swallow at the same time without their sats dropping. I hope your little one is home with you soon, it sounds like she's doing well xx

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beardotdo · 27/07/2017 16:33

Twins born at 33+2. They came home at 40+6. They had a very smooth but long journey, all due to feeding issues.

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Confuzzlediddled · 27/07/2017 16:38

My twins were born at 33 +4, came home 16 days later, baby opposite birth at 34+3 came home at 42 weeks, all babies are different - congratulations!

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