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Littlemissawesome Thu 06-Jun-19 22:31:33

I am currently 10 weeks pregnant, when I told my partner he said if I don't get rid of it then he is walking away! I went to the clinic, had a scan and was told I was expecting twins! One sadly died at 5 weeks 5 days! What would you do?

babbi Thu 06-Jun-19 22:34:44

Whatever you decide to do with your baby ... get rid of him ... heartless loser who will be a drain in your life .
You need a partner who you know will support you through life’s challenges.. he’s shown you he won’t be that person .

Sorry for the baby you lost .. take care of yourself and keep well x

PicpouldePoulet Thu 06-Jun-19 22:35:08

Get rid of your partner and walk away.

PicpouldePoulet Thu 06-Jun-19 22:35:31

Sorry for your loss.

darjeelingisrank Thu 06-Jun-19 22:36:24

I'd get rid of him.

UpsydaisyandIgglePiggleareatit Thu 06-Jun-19 22:38:30

Sorry for your loss OP.
Agree with PPs regardless of what you do with your pregnancy now... please leave your partner. He isn’t one. He’s awful. Sorry again OP. Really hope you’re ok and have someone who you can talk to and help you. X

PinkHeartLovesCake Thu 06-Jun-19 22:38:56

No way would I abort a baby for a man!

He could leave you tomorrow and then you’ve aborted your baby, how would you feel?

Any man that loved you would NEVER behave this way. Up your standards, let him leave, keep the baby.......

ChristinaMarlowe Thu 06-Jun-19 22:43:28

I was told similar (4 years into relationship) "If you have this baby you won't see me for dust" when I was 23. I terminated the pregnancy. Anyway seriously depressed and anorexic, I couldn't cope with the situation. Whether you abort or not your relationship is dead. You'll never forgive him if you end the pregnancy and he'll never change whether you do or not. I'm now 37, married, one DD aged 6 and another DD due in July. I'll never forget that first baby or forgive myself but I'm so glad I'm not tied to that cunt for the rest of my life and that my children have a daddy that loves them unconditionally. Only you know what's right for you but please don't abort your baby to keep this rat - you've already lost him and he wasn't worth keeping.

ozymandiusking Thu 06-Jun-19 22:43:52

I feel so sorry for you. And for the lost baby. But you could have this one, and have a wonderful life with him or her.
You partner is dispicable, let him go.
You'll be fine. x

VampirateQueen Thu 06-Jun-19 22:46:22

Let your partner walk and have your baby.

yellowgreenbluepurple Thu 06-Jun-19 22:47:50

Regardless of if you have your baby or not (and that has to be a choice for you not anyone else) I'd get rid of your partner.

Whatsername7 Thu 06-Jun-19 22:49:09

You do whatever is right for you. Your partner doesnt sound nice. Does he treat you well in other aspects of your relationship? Having an abortion is your right and nothing to be ashamed of. Do it, if you feel that it is the best thing for you. If not, then have the baby but remember you deserve much better than the way your partner is treating you right now.

EstherMumsnet (MNHQ) Thu 06-Jun-19 22:49:10

We are moving this thread to the Pregnancy Choices area.

TrixieFranklin Thu 06-Jun-19 23:04:00

I'd get rid of your partner immediately and then make the right decision for yourself re the baby.

Littlemissawesome Fri 07-Jun-19 15:29:40

Um... If I'm honest people have said they don't like him and they don't like the way he speaks to me!

TrixieFranklin Fri 07-Jun-19 19:26:03

And do you like the way he speaks to you?

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