I'm 35. I have 2 children (2&4) who I adore, I have a decent job and a lovely husband. Both my children took a year of trying to conceive.
I've had sex once this month (using the withdrawal method), today I just had a feeling. That muzzy headed feeling I got when I was pregnant before, and I realised I was a week or two late. Long story short I'm pregnant.
I'm devastated. I don't want another baby. I hate myself for thinking that, I don't want a termination because of what it means but I also desperately don't want another baby. I could make all the excuses in the world as to why it would be a bad idea to have a third child, but it boils down to - I just can't see myself having another. I know my husband feels the same, even though he tried to hide it and said he'd support me either way.
I can't believe this has happened. I don't know what to do. I don't even have a GP (moved house and haven't re-registered yet). I need practical advice. What do I need to do? What happens at a termination? Will I need time off work?
Thank you for reading xxx
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ningaj · 08/02/2019 18:55
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