My husband and I have made the heartbreaking decision to terminate my pregnancy due to multiple major heart defects and a choromosonal disorder, which were discovered at our 20 week scan (on christmas eve :(). However we cannot decide between a surgical or medical abortion. I desperately don't want to have to deliver the baby in hospital, on the labour ward, mainly due to the fact that it would take so long. I also have PTSD from a previous traumatic hospital labour when our 2yo DD was born. I would much prefer to have a surgical abortion through a charity and just wake up and it be over. However my husband and I would ideally both like to have the opportunity to see the baby and say goodbye, which isn't possible with a surgical procedure. Does anyone have any experience with this, and can help me with this horrible choice?
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