My dh has low sperm count. We were told it was practically impossible to conceive with his numbers so we did ivf after nothing happening for 5 years. Long story short, 6 attempts and 3 miscarriages later we have our beautiful 2 children. Life is perfect. Except I was made redundant after maternity leave followed shortly by my dh. We’ve both been lucky enough to get new jobs but neither has been started. I’ve now become the breadwinner as dh’s salary has been reduced by half. I’ve suddenly found myself pregnant and I don’t know what to do. It is a bloody miracle but the timing is awful and we’re aware that a third would really impact life a lot. We’ve somehow gone from desperate to be pregnant to seriously considering termination but having gone through so many scans where there is no heartbeat, I’m not sure I can knowingly stop a miracle viable pregnancy. Not sure what to do at all. Any wisdom?
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