I've just discovered I'm pregnant. I'm 45 with an 18 month old and a 3 year old. Been with DP 9 years. I thought I was incredibly lucky to have babies at 42 and 43 as I have several friends from early 30's to mid 40's ttc and going through IVF. Our family is complete or so I thought. I can't believe I'm pregnant and neither can DP who is adamant we can't manage or afford another baby. We are really struggling financially as I've been made redundant from my full time job and was the main earner. We rent, have no savings, and we both now have debt.
I'm beyond shocked at being pregnant. I honestly thought it virtually impossible at 45 and yet this was a one hit wonder at a time I honestly thought was nowhere near the 'right' time.
I don't know what to do. Part of me feels there is no way I/we can cope practically,financially and would it even be fair on our other two who are just starting to really play together and get on so well.
Has anyone else had an unplanned pregnancy in their mid 40's? What did you do? How did you reach your decision?
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Idontknowwhatithink · 19/04/2018 14:05
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