Today was possibly the worst day of our lives, we were referred to a specialist who confirm our little baby has acrania which would lead to anencephaly and would not be compatible with life outside the womb. We are completely broken. We have been given two options of medical or surgical termination. We have opted for surgical, has anyone had any experience of this? Will I be in pain after? They have said they will send our baby for tests and then when returned to the hospital the hospital will hold a funeral. I almost feel like a fraud for grieving for someone we haven't met but see our baby moving and hearing their heartbeat just made it so real.
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