Hi,
I'm in a really tricky situation. Have found myself very unexpectedly pregnant less than a week after starting new job (I'm almost 6 weeks pg I think). So wouldn't even be entitled to SMP. Finances aren't great for us currently so this would be really hard.
Youngest child is 12 so the age gap is huge, really not sure how it would work to have 3 teenagers and a baby in the house. Dread the idea of starting all over again, so to speak. And I already struggle to fit everything in, and to give kids enough attention as it is.
But the idea of an abortion fills me with dread, not just actually physically going through it but how I would cope afterwards. I hate the idea. My mental health hasn't been great historically but then this is also an issue when I think about going ahead with the pregnancy.
Just so confused and literally don't know what to do. DH being great and super supportive but he is just as shocked as I am and has the same sort of feelings of pros/cons.
I'm also concerned about getting appointments (whatever we decide) outside of full time work hours. Feel like I really can't have time off this early on in new job... how on earth would I explain it...
Any advice or shared experiences would be great, thank you in advance.
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whatnowhuh · 10/09/2017 09:45
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