Private termination advice?

[newnamechange84]

Hiya,

Looking for some advice please. I found out I was 4 weeks pregnant last Thursday. I'd decided to keep the baby but have woken up this morning and had a good chat with my auntie who is quite close in age to me and decided it would be the wrong decision for me and my three children. Saw my ex last night who after a huge argument has said he'll support me but I'll still be a lone parent to four children by three different fathers and I can't do that. I've been offered an initial appointment with the NHS on 8th August by which point I'll be 8 weeks. I can't carry on anymore so need to look into private options. Does anyone have any advice on how to go about this please?

[namechange20050]

Hi op. You can contact Marie stopes and BPAS direct and they may well be able to see you sooner. Plus you shouldn't have to pay (they can clarify this for you over the phone when you book).

[namechange20050]

Are you ok op?

[AWafferthinmint]

The BPAS were wonderful when I made the decision to have a termination. Hope you're ok OP, it's never an easy choice x

[newnamechange84]

No not really ok. I feel this is my last tie to my ex, who I love deeply. I finished the relationship two months ago in a really nasty way as he'd been texting another woman who he said was a friend saying that she was stunning and that I wasn't his 'life partner'. We nearly reconciled two weeks ago but he says he can't get over what I did. This has now happened instead. I can't have another child but this is breaking my heart. I managed to book an appointment with bpas for the 2nd August. I just want him back.