Morning all
Looking for some advice here please.
Last year I had an affair with a married man for nearly a year. We were both married, with children and we both left our marriages. (I know this was an awful thing to do, one I am ashamed of and shouldn't have let happen) we have since been together for 6 months after the affair but the MM finished our relationship 6 weeks ago due to his family dis-owning him and telling him he won't be part of the family if he were to carry on being with me. It was causing so much grief to us both that he decided to end us.
Since then he has been coming round a couple of times a week (mainly for sex)
I've just found out I'm 4 weeks pregnant.
Last night I told him and he automatically told me I had to 'get rid' of the baby, that he would never be part of its life, that it's only the size of a pea and not even living yet so I need to have an abortion now before it's too late and ruins his life forever.
I told him I wouldn't be doing that, the thought of having an abortion wrecks me, I could never ever go through with it.
I asked why I should have the abortion and he said his family will never speak to him again and it will have too much of an impact of his other 2 children's lives (who he keeps saying are the most important people to him)
He said if I keep it I will have to pretend I've had a one night stand and never ever contact him again.
I'm now going to be bringing this baby up alone I think.
Thanks for listening.
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Feelingalone198 · 05/05/2017 07:36
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