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This topic is for personal experiences or dilemmas; to debate the ethics of termination, please go here or here.

So yesterday...

(7 Posts)
TopsyandTimsMummy Sun 19-Feb-17 23:07:33

I had an abortion.

Even though I have been thinking about being pregnant every single minute since I found out, I haven't become emotionally attached. It was the best thing to do for me and my family.

I had a medical abortion but I really don't think it worked. I haven't passed anything apart from a few tiny clots.

Just don't know what to think at the minute

So if it hasn't worked it's a failed condom, failed MAP and failed termination.


LailasMummyx Sun 19-Feb-17 23:18:01

Hope your ok flowers

user1490271758 Thu 23-Mar-17 13:07:30

You sound very brave flowers

neonrainbow Thu 23-Mar-17 13:08:34

Can you call the clinic for advice? You do sound very brave op.

Raffles1981 Thu 23-Mar-17 13:09:24

Maybe just call the clinic lovely, they will advise you. xxx

Fairybella Thu 23-Mar-17 13:09:28

You have been through a lot call the clinic

TopsyandTimsMummy Fri 24-Mar-17 22:04:17

Thanks everyone for your messages.

It's been a while since my first post. I've got to say it's been a stressful few weeks.

A week and a half after the abortion I think I passed the sack. After 2 weeks I had a scan and they confirmed it had gone but there was a lot of tissue left. The next few days after that I passed the tissue.

Finally after just over 4 weeks the test says I don't have the pregnancy hormones left.

The amount of blood that came out of me was horrendous...a few times times I was close to going to A&E but it them slowed down again.

I hope I never have to go through this again as it was very traumatic.


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