I’ve found out I’m pregnant, the best thing to do in my circumstances would be to terminate the pregnancy. I’m really struggling to get any answers from healthcare professionals at the moment, any line I ring I can’t get through. I made a doctors appointment and he was awful to me; he said that the woman before me had complained of not being able to get pregnant and that I should count myself lucky. I began to cry and he told me to leave and to not cry in front of other patients in HIS reception area. I have a few questions
- How long between first appointment to the actual abortion?
- Can I choose the method of abortion – I’d prefer surgical, I don’t want to wait at home/in hospital for the sac to pass. I'll be about 7 weeks I think.
- Can I ask for an appointment for a few weeks time, rather than the first available one? I know that termination is the right option, but I want to know that I’ve given myself enough time to process everything.
- Can I ask to see the scan/heart beat? I want too
I'll have DP there with me, i'm not sure if i'm doing this for him, but i'd like to begin to take steps ASAP.