Can't believe I'm writing this. I've only just found out I'm pregnant so apologies if this doesn't make much sense at all.
I've got two children - secondary school age - and separated from their dad about 18months ago.
I've been seeing the most amazing man for the last 4 months.
Until just now. I've just done a test and it's positive. Fuck. I'm almost 100% sure he doesn't want anymore children. Not entirely sure whether I do either, but now I'm pregnant.
I don't know if I can go through an abortion, but I also don't know how I can keep this baby. Oh god, I can't believe this is happening
I know I need to tell him, I can't go through this on my own and there's no one else I can talk to. I just don't know how.
If I decided to keep it and we went our separate ways, well that wouldn't work as we work for the same company....not directly together, but in the building.
Oh god this is just such a mess. I really thought he could be the one. I know that sounds silly only 4 months in, but it really was all going so well.
Sorry if that makes no sense, I just needed to get everything down that's going through my head
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L0nd0nmum · 12/09/2016 14:33
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