So.....
I already have 3DC with my ex hubby, we are 4 week away from our divorce becoming final. we split in sep 2014, i had a brief relationship with a guy feb-april 2015, i then again got into a relationship with the smae guy sep15-jan16.....
In nov 15 we got a phone call from his ex saying she was pregnant 12-14 weeks so obv before we got together... Scan showed 9 weeks (she admitted to sleeping with a another) fair enough not his, her 12 week scan comes and shes a few weeks further than expected (15-16). however on the same day we found out i was pregnant after suffering a mc the month before... id gone on the pill in dec after our mc and caught on again.....
despite assuring me hed support me whatever my choice and telling me he didnt want his ex back, he issued me with an ultimatum 2 weeks ago.... him or the baby
apparently his ex can carry his child as shes not got kids, i on the other hand have three and im at uni. those are his reasons for him now wanting a termination..
Ive been for one app and didnt get passed the scan, im booked in again weds.
But i cant help thinking that i will hate myself if i do this, but then again i am at uni and my other three have been through so much already since me and their dad split, do they really need another change in their circumstances...........
My head and my heart ache from this literally
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WinchWench88 · 30/01/2016 20:27
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