Wasn't sure where to post this, this board seemed like the least offensive and anyway, I know a lot of you over time as we set this board up. And so you might know my background and understand my panic (hence no n/c)
I'm ridiculously paranoid that I'm pregnant. I don't know why. I was recently put back on the pill for period issues, which might be clouding my judgment as I fell pg on the pill back in my early 20s, don't know whether that was because of illness or just bad luck.
Logically, I can see reasons why I have pregnancy-like symptoms. I had had a horrible virus for the past 10 days so am knackered. I have a slightly upset tummy, but that's almost certainly from all the snot etc. Or just me paying more attention to the tummy changes being on the pill can cause. The two things that have been really bugging me the past week have been 1) getting up occasionally to pee during the night, and 2) my sense of smell seeming stronger. Both are symptoms I've had in previous pregnancies. The smell (things seem stuffy) is really bothering me now. Probably completely psychosomatic by now.
I've taken two tests, one yesterday and one a week ago, both negative.
Now realistically, my last pill period was on the 21st May. We've had sex one, on the 27th (we think). This might sound stupidly out of synch but from the unexpected pregnancies I seem to ovulate ridiculously bloody early and so have fallen pregnant twice, for definite, after having had unprotected sex on days 4-5. Those dates would make me on, what, 2 1/2 weeks since my period? Which is just too ridiculously early to be smelling things and feeling nauseous. Plus I have no reason to think that I wouldn't have been covered by the pill. Surely, if there was enough HGC to make me feel nauseous, there would be enough HGC to have a positive test?
Or I'd be pregnant from my previous cycle, in which case I've always had a strong positive test a day or two after a missed period.
These dates just don't add up, do they? To have had sex a fortnight ago and already think I have some pregnancy symptoms?
I'm just panicking. I want another DC but as irrational as it sounds, I can't do this without planning - I need to decide to try for a baby, I need to prepare myself for the sickness, I need to quit smoking properly first. I can't do this unexpectedly again. And I'm not due on for another 7-10 days
Sorry for the lengthy waffle. Just wondering if someone else on here, knowing some of you have been through the same things, can make me less paranoid.
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Thurlow · 09/06/2015 13:04
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