I neither feel relieved or heartbroken. Is that odd? When I came round from the anaesthetic I asked if it was done, the nurse said yes, and I cried a lot then slept for hours. Now I'm at home, in a lot of pain and just feeling nothing.
I have 3dc already, I'm married, I couldn't have a 4th. I didn't want to go through this but felt I had no option really.
I had a surgical abortion about 4 years ago, and didn't feel remotely guilty (I still don't to this day) It was strange and I wondered if that was normal. I think it is. Don't beat yourself up over it.
Take plenty of painkillers, get plenty of rest and try to relax
I had a surgical abortion in October. I didn't feel guilty at all and although I'd love another (1 dc atm) the situation and circumstances were all wrong if anything I felt relived I hardly suffered any bleeding and the aching went after a good night's sleep hope you are okay xx