Im a single mum of 4...age 15-5 and found out im expecting twins...the dad dont want the babies and has harassed me to get an abortion...I want to keep them but I am so scared of doing it alone, and im scared to go through the baby phase..sleepless nights..teething...endless crying and nappy changes...I have mental health problems that I have only just got under control. I am terrified...I dont want to lose these babies it breaks my heart to imagine them gone..makes me feel so crule and horrible and selfish...so the way I see it is I cant win...ill feel awful keeping them and awful giving them up to an abortion..the dad told me im ruining his life keeping them..he is on a brink of a breakdown over it. Obviously it was never ment to happen..I was on cerazette pop pill...and apparently a lot of people get pregnant on that pill?. I would have to make the abortion look like a miscarriage...but how? And id have to go through it alone...the dad wont be about to go with me...but I guess I deserve to feel alone and go through it alone as punishment for having the abortion.
So he doesn't what the pregnancy to continue but he also does not want to support you through a termination??
Nobody can make the decision what to do for you. Please go a speak to your GP or FPC about your options.
Whatever you then decide to do, consider what this man is bringing to your life in a positive way and what longterm contraception you need. Every method has failure rates, some are more user dependent than others.