I'm graduating later this month. My grandparents want to get me a graduation present, which I really appreciate and wasn't expecting at all. However, apparently the idea they've stuck on is that as my cousin is getting married later in the year, the best thing to get me would be 'a nice dress' so that I can use it as a bridesmaid's outfit at my cousin's wedding. (She's having the bridesmaids wear a colour scheme, but isn't bothered about the outfits matching exactly.) I'm really not a dress sort of person, have talked to my cousin about it and she's said tbh, if I want to wear trousers and a nice shirt she'll be happy regardless, she just wants me to be there. And I don't mind wearing a dress, but I feel like grandparents spending a lot of money on one specifically aimed at the bridesmaiding would be kind of a waste, as neither cousin nor myself feel strongly about 'nice' (to them this will translate to expensive) dresses.
So, I'm thinking of asking them for a contribution towards a home birthing pool instead. This would only be if the pregnancy doesn't become complicated and I'm still going for a home birth later on (am still only considering it), but I think the idea might be worth raising with them. But am worried they'll find it weird.
Any thoughts?
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Grandparents want to get me something so I'm thinking of asking for a birth pool, is that weird?
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Ryuk · 01/07/2010 15:24
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