I'm 18+6 and have had a pretty rough time of it (second baby), last week I started to feel better, no sickness, not as tired felt better in myself, etc. However, this week I seem to have gone off all food and I'm really struggling to eat. I keep saying to myself that this is about the only time in life when you can eat as you like and I should enjoy it. I lived on soup in the earlier pg days, I have had no cravings but gone off a lot of foods, I'm vegetarian and usually eat loads of steamed veg, but the thought of this makes me feel awful. Has anyone else experienced anything like this? I know how important it is for the baby and that is what worries me, everything seems to smell or taste funny? I really can't think of anything I fancy to eat!!
lulabelle: This is not particularly helpful but I know exactly how you feel. I am only 8 weeks with this pg but I am already finding it very challenging to find something that I actually want to eat. With my DD (my second pregnancy) the feeling did get worse around 17-18 weeks.
Are you managing to gain weight? Do you still feel sick?
I have the sweetest tooth ever at the moment.
Write a food diary - it does help and try to eat enough so your multivitamin is absorbed.
Your baby will suck everything they need out of you.
what about breakfast cereal, lots of them are infused with good stuff and you'll be getting extra calcium from milk.
Dried fruit such as apricots eaten with a glass of OJ are really good for iron.
I had this in both pregnancies and found my appetite increased towards the end, week 30 onwards. My midwife advised me not to stress out about it, it will make you feel worse. Also don't let others go on about it that can make problem seem worse.
Try and eat child sized portions of whatever you fancy as wherever possible.
I did lose weight but my daughters weighed 8lb6oz and 9lb3oz respectively. Whatever you eat they will take all the goodness they can!
I have been told that it is a 'girl' thing, everyone who has had these problems has had a girl! My first baby ds, now 3.5, gave me no problems at all, I had no sickness, I liked food and I had cravings, this is the complete opposite so maybe the theory is right! He was 8.8 at birth and gained from then onwards.
I try to eat fruit as I can manage this better than the veg, mainly grapes and nectarines and some salads for lunch, I have been eating cereals for dinner and having a bigger lunch, mainly so as I'm not up all night with indigestion!
I meant to also say I have had a thing for really cold orange juice which would help but this is one of the main causes setting off the indigestion. I have also had some headaches, does anyone know if you can use that 4head stuff that you see advertised on the tv (the one you roll on like a deo)??
I had the same thing, was a bit upset because I was worried about the baby (being sick lots as well). My MW said baby would be fine and you do not need to eat much more at the start of pg. More important to keep drinking. Now have a healthy 3 month old, and went back to normal clothes only 3 weeks after giving birth
sweetkitty, funny you say that about junk food, I love pizza but have gone off it during pregnancy (almost straight away) but love the chip shop (which I usually hate!) and the chinese, indian, etc. I thought it was just because that involves no shopping, washing up, etc. but I have even gone off that, my DH said the other night whatever you want I will get but I couldn't think of anything at all, all I want is ice cold drinks.
soryr lol just ot eat little bits often rather than sit down to a meal as it tends to put me off. ?Be interested to know if there is anything in the theory og girls being like this as i had none of this with DS. However i am convinced its a boy so we shall see
Nemo1977, 3 of my friends were pg same time as me with ds1, they were all poorly and couldn't believe how well I was, they all had girls and I had ds. This time another 1 of them is pg, she had her 20 week scan 2 weeks ago and has found out that she is having a girl, she was convinced - and still is - that the new baby is a boy. Other replies on here seem to show that these symptoms have been baby girls. I have my 20 week scan mid-August and I'm hoping to find out so I'll let you know.