Okay, I thought about changing my name for this one because I'm a bit ashamed of the way I'm feeling, but as I've been all over MN telling people the good news, then there's not much point really.
As some of you will know I've just found out I'm pg with my sencond child, dd being almost 9mo. Now this is a lot sooner than we'd imagined, and although this baby wasn't planned, it wasn't prevented either. I'm gronw up enough to know what I was doing and what the possible consequences would be. At first, I was over the moon, as was dh, but some reality has kicked in and we've both had a few "OH MY GOODNESS!".
My worries aren't that I won't love the baby because I know I will, or that I won't cope because I know we will manage and enjoy it in a very tired way. I have been having thoughts along the lines of "oh I wish we'd waited a little longer" and "I wish we could put this pg on hold for a few months" but don't feel I can say these things out loud in case dh thinks I don't want the baby. I really, really do, I'm just having doubts about how money/childcare will be arranged as we don't have enough of either!
I feel silly even typing this now, it doesn't seem to make much sense written down. I guess what I'm trying to say is, is it normal to wish I could pause time?
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Having doubts about pg today - feeling v guilty too.
BibiTwo · 08/07/2005 10:53
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