She came to stay recently and tidied and cleaned everything I'd let her touch (or not), including, for example, the cats' bowls, which I'd just washed before feeding them. She took the food out, washed them up, and put the food back.
She criticised me for not providing a seating plan at a meal, complained about what I was cooking, and said "you've become a brilliant cook under DH's tutelage", which made me FUME as I'm a good cook, and he has not taught me to cook. And she held on to the front of the trolley all round the supermarket, and tried to suggest things I SHOULD BUY for DH...
For 4 days it felt like NOTHING i did was right... Is this because I'm bearing her grandchild and she doesn't think I'm up to it? She's never been this infuriating before...
We've also just found out that she (or, less likely, FIL) told DH's aunt and uncle about our fertility treatment. I am SO angry about the interference that I never want to see her again, let alone tell her anything. It's SO sad since i've always really enjoyed going to see them. I'm imagining 20 years of advice about parenting coming up...
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since being pregnant my MIL seems to have stepped up her attempts to run my life. Anyone else's act like this?
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woowa · 12/10/2009 18:55
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