I know this has probably been done to death but i have seen some conflicting advice on tinternet about conception times after a c section. I dont want to wait too long as im 38 this coming January.
My DS is my 4th but from my second marriage and my three older girls are all ranging in age from early to late teens - id really like him to grow up with a sibling fairly close in age but tbh i was told by a midwife after my c section to wait 18 months and im a bit worried that if i wait that long i might really be compromising my fertility.
I have also seen an obstetrician online advise starting ttc from about 9 months (especially if age is an issue). Obviously i dont want to compromise mine or my future babies health by getting pregnant too quickly but as he is 1 in Feb i was thinking about getting started in early Jan ... too soon?
Am not sure if it makes any difference but i have T2 diabetes as well and the consultant didnt say anything about how long to wait before getting pregnant again just to make sure that i had some pre conception advice and started on insulin again before i get pregnant again.
After my CS they told me to wait 2 years for the next one. (I was almost 36, I am now 40) Try to have a preconception meeting with an independant consultant (recomanded preferably), write all your questions in advance on a piece of paper and don't be ashamed to pull it out during the interview. I am usually so impressed by the doctors that I forget most of the questions without it. If I were you I would wait a bit more than that but obviously it is ultimately your choice... and your GP, MW will support you and give you the appropriate care. Saying that my scar does hurt a bit in my 2nd pg after 5y, I wouldn't imagine what it would have been at less than 18 months.
hi rosie where have you been? Good to see you are ok although clearly a little crazy to be thinking about it so soon (on a OMG how many babies/toddlers level as opposed to on any medical level)
Don't worry about age, I was 41 when DS was born and DD was then 2.4 and my last three 'deliveries' have been CS.
If you were to conceive now, it would have been almost 18 months between sections. I would imagine you'd just need to be very careful not to go into labour before a planned CS but I'm sure you'd get lots of proper support and guidance once you are pregnant.
Hope everything goes ok for you and make sure you come back and join us Fab Febbers xxx
I think it must depend on the individual and how well she heals after c-sections, you know your own body and how fit you are.
I have had 4 c-sections and having my 5th and last in 4 weeks time. We went to see our consultant to talk through risks etc before conceiving and he was very confident which makes a huge difference. My dcs are 9,7,5 and 2, this is the only pregnancy I have felt more discomfort along the scar line with, although really isn't that bad. DH works away from home so I probably do too much and alot is down to not resting!
Thanks for all your replies - i think i might personally wait till DS is one in Feb and go for the appt with the consultant then get cracking so to speak But it is very reassuring to see so many of you having had your babies in fairly close succession after a c section.
mos I have been really busy trying to move ect ect so haven't been on much - tried to catch up yesterday though. Am just considering my options as starting to think about a sibling for DS next year or possibly the year after.
I think i healed fairly quickly - it didnt hurt at all within a few short weeks although is still numb but i think thats pretty par for the course iyswim. I just dont want to leave it too late or 'do it' too early for my already knackered body to cope with so will probably (almost certainly) leave it a year.