I miscarried what would have been my 3rd child earlier this year - the miscarriage was fairly awful and I bled very heavily for 7 weeks afterwards.
DH and I were going to give it one last go (I am 40 next year) but then I got a job and swine fly descended and I began to think that maybe it was best not to. After having tried for 18 months to conceive the baby we lost I suppose we thought that it would be that difficult again and were'nt particularly careful. My period failed to come and I tested on Saturday (6 days late) and got a strong positive. I wasn't ecstatic just very frightened after all that happened last time but over the last couple of days I have begun to get used to the idea and my feelings have changed to more what they should be.
Yesterday I was very irritable (like PMT) and this morning my breasts are no longer tender (my nipples were excruciatingly sore last night but nothing now). So I am beginning to think it has happened again - loss of symptoms = miscarriage. The thing is that my 2 previous miscarriages were missed ones and I didn't find out until 10 and 12 weeks - obviously I don't want to go this route again but if I went for a scan now it would be too early to see anything, wouldn't it - I should be about 3 weeks.
If you got to the end of this - thanks - haven't told anyone IRL yet (apart from DH) - my Mum will just say "It wasn't meant to be" - she doesn't get that this doesn't help.
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Pregnant again after miscarriage and worried already - bit long - sorry
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Jacanne · 01/09/2009 09:23
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