I'm having #1 and have been led to believe anecdotally that Frimley Park (Surrey) do not disclose the gender of the baby at the 20 week scan.
I had just accepted this and whenever anyone asks if we know (we are only 13 weeks!) we can just say the hospital doesn't tell you. Anyway, last night I met someone who swears that they DID tell her SIL for #3.
So now I don't know and there must be someone on MN who will have been to Frimley Park recently and will know the answer.
Just to clarify- not really worried either way but would like to prepare myself for what might happen at the next scan.
I had a 20 week scan at Frimley Park just 5 weeks ago...and yes, they told us the gender but only when we asked. They make it pretty clear that it's not 100% reliable, but if you ask and they have an idea they'll tell you.
Of course, whether you want everyone else to know is a whole different question! It might be a lot easier to stick with the line that the hospital won't tell you or that they couldn't tell on the day...