I have a dilemma. One of my best friends from University days (ahem over 13 years ago now!) will be getting married in September. I used to live in the room next to her for 2 years and she came to our wedding 5 years ago.
Here is the problem; we live in North Wales and her wedding is in Falmouth. According to the AA thats at least an 7 hour drive each way not including any traffic problems. The M5 round Bristol is notoriously bad.
I checked the trains and it will take 9-11 hours and 3 changes. It is unlikely that anyone will let me on a plane.
DH might not be able to come with me as he is a teacher and can't get the Friday off. DS was going to stay at his grandparents but this is no longer possible so DH might have to stay at home to look after him anyway unless we find something else.
I will be 35 weeks pg the week of the wedding. I am 30 weeks now and healthy (a bit low in iron) but feel tired and achy if I stand up too long. DH is worried that I might go in to labour and that it's too far for me to drive on my own.
I don't know whether to go or not. I won't be able to stand up too long at the wedding, or drink, and I will look like a house and probably have to go to be early.
However, it would be lovely to see my uni mates and catch up with them.
My friend really wants me to go. She doesn't have children and no one else at the wedding (who I know) is a parent. I'd feel more comfortable if I could ask one of my friends at the wedding to give me a bit of support but they have no knowledge/understanding of being pg and will probably want to get drunk.
I don't want to tire myself out or do anything silly but I would like to go to the wedding. I wish it was nearer. It would be a whole lot easier if I wasn't pregnant.
I am seeing my consultant tomorrow. My previous baby was an ECS. I might mention the wedding to him and see what he thinks.
Anyone got any thoughts / advice?
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Lots of travel at 35 weeks pg for a friends wedding - is this a good idea?
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HalfMumHalfBiscuit · 09/08/2009 12:47
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