3rd baby and worried

[jaynel]

Hi, i have just found out i'm 6 weeks pregnant, i already have a dd 10, ds 4 and a sd 11, i'm really worried, about money and coping with another child, i have also just started a new job 3 weeks ago and i'm worried what my manager will say. my dh isn't very happy either and i really dont want to put a strain on our marriage. am i just being paranoid?

[mrsmortenharket]

(((((((((()))))))))
i have no real advice sorry but i couldn't let you go unanswered xx

[DarrellRivers]

Don't worry about the other stuff, the money, the job, DH etc.
These things always work out, they will, you will cope, these things happen
your DH is part of this as well, it didn't happen without him, and he bet once the shock has worn off, he will be a little more positive
Concentrate on how you feel about the baby.
This is a positive thing, a new life, a new child, and in years to come you won't remember the peripheral stuff

[jaynel]

thank you, i am happy, just have so much going around my head at the mo, i didnt think i could get pregnant, i was told im not ovulating and i have a cyst on my ovary, was not expect to be pregnant at all x thank you again x

[DarrellRivers]

You sounded like underneath all the other worrying stuff, that you were happy about the baby.
Which is the only thing really.
Keep hold of that fact and it's not your fault
Good luck with it all and congratulations

[jaynel]

Thank you darrellrivers! x

[mrsmortenharket]

i agree with darrellrivers (((((()))))

congratulations xx