Didn't know where else to put this.
I am 32, DH is 45. We've been married for 7 years and have two children - ages 4 yrs and 10 mths. I am 3 months pregnant with unplanned no.3. I was stunned but excited when I found out I was pregnant. DH wasn't exactly overjoyed initially, but he has come round to the idea and is now looking forward to our new arrival. However, he definitely, definitely doesn't want anymore. I don't either, although I am not as forceful in my assertion of this. My main reason is that this will be my third c-section, and I really can't see myself having a fourth. DH has a catalogue of reasons - the c-section thing, the fact that I suffer from a very serious pregnancy-related condition, and then the energy and money required to support each new child - all worry DH immensely.
Do you think he should have a vasectomy? Or should I be sterilised? (would they do that while I'm in theatre for my section?). We haven't discussed this at all yet, but the conversation has to be had. I have always been against such drastic actions, but seeing as there is no other way of being absolutely sure we won't have any more children, now I am reconsidering. However, I do have niggling doubts. What would you do?
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Vasectomy/Sterilisation advice?
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Jacobia · 05/07/2009 19:28
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