Its probably my hormones, I get very insane in the first 12 weeks. But anyways.
I had a son 8 months ago. I have two girls too and thought that was my family complete. However nearly 3 months ago, i found out i was pregnant again after taking the morning after pill. DH and I were pretty horrified, talked about termination (especially as we were concerned the Morning after pill might have caused some sort of deformities), spent a good week crying one minute, trying to convince ourselves it would be fine the next. By the end of the week we decided we wanted the baby, that termination just could never be an option anyways, and even began to get excited about it.
Towards the end of the following week i began to bleed and another week after that, on my eldests birthday i lost the baby at 7 weeks gone. I actually had something to bury in the garden without going into details.
I was devastated and convinced i had made myself miscarry with all the negative thoughts previous to deciding we wanted the baby. Within a few weeks, i decided i wanted another baby. In hindsight i think i was just in total shock to what had happened and thought getting pregnant again was the answer.
So nearly 3 months on, I am now 5 weeks pregnant. And on one hand i am totally over the moon, so excited. On the other, all these doubts have come rushing in. What if i lose this one? What will people say...i live in a tiny little town and already have 3 kids under 5. Will i manage to get them all to school on time (none in school yet, two oldest starting preschool in august). What if i cant cope? Have i been really silly?
My DH is so much more level headed than me, he is not worried, is very excited. I feel i cant say to him i have gotton myself all worried and nervous, because he will think badly of me for it.
Is there anyone else out there, whom feels confused like me? One minute i am panicing there might be blood when i go to the loo, the next i am panicing about having a baby and not being able to manage.
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makingdotoo · 22/06/2009 11:03
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