I'm 40+wks gone, and i have serious pre-natal depression, i can't help it but i don't feel bonded to this baby, really scarded of how it will be when baby arrives. has anyone one ever expearanced simalir?? please help, am I a bad mum?
you're absolutely the best mum your baby could possibly have. I can highly recommend listening to some positive visualisations from www.easybirthdownloads.com - they have a lovely choice of recordings and Bonding with Baby is one of them. There's also Stress Release, Pain Relief, Wellbeing, Quick Recovery .... and loads more for pregnancy and birth! Great value and very relaxing and I'm sure you'll feel better when you can just let it all happen in yours / your baby's own time. Good luck and enjoy that special moment of meeting your baby for the first time.