My friend lives in Stafford but her children are older now. However I do know that there is quite an active NCT group there and she met a lot of people through that. It may be worth investigating if they do bumps and babes coffee mornings.
I am not in Stafford but only live 15 minutes away and am 34 weeks pregnant with boy number 3. However, I homeschool my children (7 & 4), so getting about during the week is not easy at all, lol! I have also heard there is a good and active NCT group there. I also like the idea of aquanatal. It will be a little easier once mat leave starts. Congratulations on your ds and good luck!
Hard work more than impressive! Nope, never been a teacher or trained as one. It's a very long story, but we are happy as we are right now, but want to start going to the home ed group that mneets in Stafford, just waiting on getting a second car (dh needs one for work)