having my 4th baby and just wondering if anyone else has only had checks a few times with m/wifes. i always thought it went every 4wks, 2wks then weekly? may be my 4th but still enjoy my checks etc for reasurance at least.
think they've changed it round now tommy .. on 2nd and subsequent pregnancies they reduce the m/wife visits to monthly (or less presumably) if it is progressing normally and the mother doesn't have any worries
you still have the right to have checks whenever you want them though, so if you want them monthly / fortnightly whatever tell her