I'm coming on here as I'm just totally lost, confused and sad.
I found out I'm unexpectedly pregnant just over a week ago, I must be about 6 weeks.
I am now trying to decide what to do. My boyfriend says he'll support either way but that he doesn't see how we'll make it work. He's potentially about to lose his job because of coronavirus and I'm due to be starting a new high pressued job when I'd be 3-months pregnant - meaning I'd only work about 5 months before I'd have to go on maternity leave!
I have a pretty well paid job and my own house but my boyfriend has nothing, just savings. I would probably be fine but he faces the prospect of not even being able to afford a small flat if we were to break up.
We've been together 4+ years but it's been a rocky road and he only just moved in with my last month.
I don't think I can do this right now but I'm terrified I'll regret this forever. We could possibly make it work but it's a risk, mainly for my boyfriend.
I don't know what to do and just wondered if anyone had any stories or opinions :(
Thank you x
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RacerRobyn1995 · 23/02/2021 19:22
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