Im pregnant, 19 weeks and already have a 5 year old son. First time round I didn't care what the sex was as long as he was healthy. But I have a gender scan tomorrow i'd love to be able to say whatever the sex I dont care regardless but the truth is I 100% do care. I really really want a girl, I plan on having no more kids and I am desperate to have a girl this time round and would be so happy with one of each. Obviously I have no control over this but im so scared to find out tomorrow im having a boy and feel sad about it. I dont want to feel sad about it and will feel so guilty for my baby if I do. Has anyone felt like this and how did you get over it? I feel like cancelling the scan and just waiting till the birth but partner is desperate to know.
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