No heart beat

(9 Posts)
Confused38 Sat 21-Nov-20 13:59:16

So I had a scan at 6+1 due to spotting. Everything was fine was told to go back in 2 weeks if it hadn’t stopped. Went back this morning and no heart beat. I thought the chances were a lot lower after seeing a heart beat. Me and DH are devastated
3rd mc in 2 years.
Feeling psychologically broken. How do I get through this.

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SentientAndCognisant Sat 21-Nov-20 14:33:02

I am so sorry for your loss,understandably you’ll both feel broken & bereft.
The mw can refer you for specialist support and GP can too.
You take time to cry,grieve and take it minute by minute. Wee steps. You exist in the here and now and try protect yourself

Sleeeeeepy Sat 21-Nov-20 17:20:23

I'm so sorry, that's heartbreaking. Life can be incredibly unfair sometimes.

Try to get support through your mw and GP as @SentientAndCognisant suggests, and try to talk with your partner about how you're both feeling x

Snackasaurus Sat 21-Nov-20 17:31:22

I'm so sorry flowers

mollieangel123 Sat 21-Nov-20 19:30:43

I'm so sorry ❤️

ShalomToYouJackie Sat 21-Nov-20 19:51:57

I don't have any useful advice, just wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss and to look after yourself. Take each day as it comes ❤️

Gizmo79 Sat 21-Nov-20 19:52:51

So sorry for your loss.x


Bringonspring Sat 21-Nov-20 19:55:21

Post 3 MC you should now be offered tests. I would say that you could just be incredibly unlucky rather than something wrong. It’s a really positive sign that you can fall pregnant

Thoughts are with you

Confused38 Sat 21-Nov-20 21:04:17

Thank you everyone for your kind words

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