I posted a few weeks ago about a tricky situation with my in laws. Shortened form is my MIL had a baby before my husband and had him adopted. My husband discovered this by accidentally seeing a solicitor's letter around 8 years ago. He now has a relationship with his adopted brother. However, his mum has told him to never speak about it and she doesn't want anything to do with him, which we respect is her decision.
The problem now is my husband's younger brother still doesn't know the adopted brother existed. Recently my husband had enough and said to his mum that she needs to tell him, or he can tell him, but either way he needs to know. The adopted brother lives around 10 minutes away from them, they occasionally eat in the same pub and he looks so much like my husband!
Unfortunately since this, my MIL now won't speak to my husband because he has brought it up again. She also won't speak to her mum and dad because they want him to know too.
I just don't know what to do next. I'm 19+5 and would hate for anything like this to be going on when the baby is born. I know it's upsetting my husband too.
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Yorkshirelass251 · 27/07/2020 02:45
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