Such a long story. Years iv liked this guy, he lives in the same town as me. He split from his girlfriend around a year or so ago, they have 2 children together. She was a serial cheat. He even caught her in bed with someone else, but he still stayed with her. Finally she left him and he moved back in with his mum. She is a very poisonous bit.h. So one day I bumped into him and he asked for my number, I was so excited. When I got home the texting began, usual chit chat. Few days went past and we Spoke on the phone. Then I started to see red flags when he began to talk about his ex (for 4 hours straight) I even know what colour underwear she wears on a Thursday. I kinda just let it go. Few weeks pass and he is still talking about her. He came to my house and we had a drink and a really good night. I started seeing him of an eavining and it was so exciting. He used to work throughout the day and then he would have his kids till the eavining. It started to get to me when his phone would constantly ping and it would be her, she would be trying to ring him constantly. Sending him pics of the kids, remember she is seeing someone else. He would still constantly talk about her, after I stressed that it was effecting me he got the hump and left my house (also called me her name) cut a long stort short. I found out I was pregnant and he was so angry and disappointed. He said that I don’t it deliberately, and his ex and kids would be so upset, I was to have an abortion. That night his ex turned up at my house and we had a fight on the doorstep, she was shouting, saying that I need to look through his messages to her. After she left I did, and might I say I thought my heart was going to explode. He was calling her babe, messaging her more than he messages me, leaving more kisses, they were really talking about personal things. Currently now I’m on my own with my thoughts, he hasn’t checked in on me to see if I’m ok and he has blocked me. Let me just add, I’m 100x hotter than his ex, I have a successful caree and my own house, his ex has never worked a day in her life and has a reputation of sleeping around. See I’m comparing myself but this is what iv been reduced to. I feel so depressed and along. Please girls help me out hear and tell me what to do x
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He blocked me, he said my pregnancy will upset his ex and his 2 children
Jaysmum2009 · 14/06/2020 21:08
I'm so sorry you have become pregnant by him :(
It's not a good position you are in I'll be honest, he's hung up on someone else and you can be damn sure that she's still interested in him, and even if that was waning and realistically they shouldn't get back together, the "want what you can't have" syndrome will kick in for her and she will double down on him now.
The only thing might be you being pregnant might cause her to dump him. But I wouldn't want to be someone's second choice, it sounds like an unhappy and rocky start to a relationship and I feel like you could save yourself so much grief by avoiding him altogether, even though I know that will be so hard 
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