I am really confused, I’m 28, first baby
I had a routine midwife appointment and i switched hospital as my ex partner stopped supporting me (from private). Thats ok as we have gone our separate ways, he has every right as were not married and have never lived together etc. He doesn’t control finances nothing.We haven't had any contact since feb but the midwife has said this is DV as I made a small comment as I felt it to be a little controlling as he stopped care as we decided to go separate ways and anyway and I’m happy to do NHS.
This has been escalated and now SS are involved? I don’t believe my child would be in any danger from any immediate famIly? I have a SS worker asking access to my medical records and stating that this was such a brave move etc?
I’m so baffled - really. I have nothing to hide and want to do things properly but this is so stressful for me and unnecessary. The SS worker even ended the call to say I can call the police if I need to etc? I really am so confused I just went for an appointment enjoying my pregnancy to this. In a matter of days?
I am aware if I get defensive they would think I have something to hide they would be more suspicious.
I have no history of drug abuse, alcohol, DV, foster care. I live alone and have lots of family support. She asked also what would I do if he wanted contact when the baby is born.
Please I would really appreciate some guidance,
Thanks
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Lillian2019 · 04/06/2020 15:17
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