Hi All,
Hope you are all well during this time!
Just wanted some advise really.....
We were due to get married this year and were going to try for a baby straight after. However our wedding is going to be postponed because of you know what (hate even mentioning it anymore, annoys me!!!). So now that’s totally messed up our baby plans. I don’t want to be pregnant on my wedding day, I have spent years planning and I just want to have a good time. If we also wait longer, due to health issues on maternal side, I am worried I won’t be able to have kids the longer I wait. So now I am stuck on what to do. I know there’s never a “right” time for a baby in most cases, and you don’t fall pregnant straight away, it could also take months/years. But I just don’t know what to do.
I mean, if we try for a baby now, and successfully get pregnant, the baby will be around 4-5 months old at our wedding. Is having a bubba that young at our wedding going to be difficult? I know I sound so selfish but I have always pictured the perfect wedding day. Have any mums on here had a bubba around the same day on their wedding days, if so any advise? We only have one kid in my family so I am not clued up with babies/children.
Anyway any advice would be great! I also hope you don’t think I came across like an ungrateful selfish person. I am just someone who likes to have everything planned out x
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Advise - planning a baby and a wedding
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Missdeedeex · 23/05/2020 08:26
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